Is high face value the "last word"? Online celebrity stores should be "Yan" and "strict"

  At the "Xicha" located on the second floor of Juntai Department Store in Xidan, Beijing, people who buy and wait for tea are crowded with tea shops.

  Our reporter Zhang Yiqi photo

  In recent years, Jinan City, Shandong Province, based on the ancient historical and cultural resources of Quancheng, has actively preserved and restored many old buildings in the commercial port period, including Xiaoguanghan, created an "oriental painting" that perfectly combines China’s traditional culture with modern high technology, and innovated and upgraded the "online celebrity" punching place, Kuanli Qilu Food Club, forming a unique architectural style, time-honored brand and commercial culture of Quancheng Jinan.

  The picture shows an old shop owner soliciting customers in front of Qilu Food Fair in Kuanli, Jinan.

  Photo by Yu Fangping (People’s Vision)

  On Tuesday, May 14th, at 3: 50pm, the "Happy Tea" on the 2nd floor of Juntai Department Store in Xidan, Beijing was crowded. This online celebrity tea shop, which often appears in WeChat circle of friends and Tik Tok, often has to wait in line for dozens of minutes or even hours. Even if the queue time is long, it still does not affect its super popularity. After 4 o’clock, there are more and more people queuing in this store in Xidan.

  Online celebrity, refers to the network red man. Online celebrity stores refer to those shops with high popularity on the Internet, including restaurants, cafes, tea shops and homestays. Especially under the premise of continuous development of self-media and short videos, more and more stores have become online celebrity stores with the help of them, attracting many people to come to punch in.

  However, becoming a online celebrity store is only a marketing tool, and attracting customers is only a primary goal. In the longer term, it is necessary to retain customers, which requires shops to work hard on products and services. Online celebrity store should have a good reputation, but more importantly, it should strictly control the quality to create a veritable online celebrity store that can stand the market test.

  Is high face value the "last word"?

  Observing the online celebrity stores that are popular on the Internet, we can find that they basically have one thing in common, that is, they pursue "high value". Either the store decoration style is unique, or the product packaging is unique, or the product itself is unique, but in the final analysis, it is able to attract people at the first time.

  "Hi Tea" has made great efforts in stores and products. From shop design to tea cup packaging to milk tea itself, it has a "high value", and then through the recommendation of various road networks and the customers who have experienced it, its communication effect has doubled, attracting more and more people to try.

  Xiaoliang works in a hospital in Langfang City, Hebei Province, and often comes to Beijing to play with family and friends. I often see the recommendation of "hi tea", so she and her friends stood in line for 50 minutes at the "hi tea" in Zhongguancun, Beijing, and finally tasted the legendary "hi tea". "I mainly want to taste how delicious it can be. Langfang doesn’t sell it. If you come to Beijing, you have to try it."

  Xiaoliang’s evaluation of "hi tea" is average, and he thinks there is nothing unique about the taste. However, Guo Yiran, who often drinks "hi tea", thinks it tastes very good.

  Guo Maoran works in an Internet company in Beijing, and often gets together with friends on weekends or in his spare time, so he has come into contact with many online celebrity stores, especially some online celebrity restaurants. Guo Maoran showed reporters several restaurants in online celebrity that she had been to with her mobile phone. From the pictures, these restaurants are novel in design, unique in style and superior in geographical location, all of which have high "face value".

  Guo Maoran introduced a restaurant next to the Forbidden City. This restaurant is located in a small courtyard, with simple and elegant interior design, the Forbidden City wall outside the window and exquisite food. This restaurant is suitable for both parties and taking photos, but it is very expensive. In public comments, the per capita price of this restaurant exceeds that of 700 yuan. "But in fact, the food is not very delicious. Many customers go to take pictures. Even so, there are still many people. " Guo Yiran said.

  But not all online celebrity stores only pursue "high value" on the facade, and some online celebrity stores will constantly improve the quality of products and services and attract customers with connotation. Others become online celebrity stores because of their connotations.

  Kobayashi works in the headquarters of Shanghai UnionPay. He talked to reporters about an experience of queuing. Radio Lane Hot Pot, located near Shanghai Hongqiao Football Stadium, is very famous in Shanghai. It is also a online celebrity restaurant, and there are long queues at the restaurant door every day. Kobayashi once went to queue up at 2: 45 pm. Unexpectedly, he didn’t eat until 8 pm, and the queue was nearly 6 hours. In the end, Kobayashi and his friends only ate for 2 hours. "The hot pot tastes good. Although it has been waiting for a long time, I think it is still worth it." Xiaolin said.

  Liao Huaixue, a lawyer of Taihetai Law Firm, said in an interview that online celebrity’s economy is an attention economy. Relying on the spread of the Internet, social short videos and other platforms to promote, online celebrity Store can get a lot of attention in a short period of time and has a huge flow. Attention and flow mean purchasing power, which can be transformed into economic benefits.

  How much do you know about the routines of online celebrity store?

  There is a buzzword on the internet: the longest road I have traveled is your routine. This sentence is very suitable for online celebrity stores, and it is the customers who fall into the "routine" that make online celebrity stores popular.

  Queuing is one of the marketing routines of online celebrity store. When you see a long queue at the door of a certain store, many people’s first instinct is that the products of this store should be very good, which may lead to the idea that "I should try it, too." This is exactly what online celebrity stores want, and many online celebrity stores use this psychology to attract customers. In order to create the effect of queuing, some online celebrity stores will set the counter near the door to increase the illusion of long queues.

  While waiting in line at a online celebrity store, the reporter interviewed a number of customers in line at random. Some customers come here because they like it, others come here for admiration, and some just pass by and see many people queuing up to buy. It has been repeatedly exposed on the Internet that some online celebrity stores hire people to queue up to create false prosperity, so as to attract people. What’s more, he even started a queuing business, selling his own number to customers, and became a "scalper" queuing in online celebrity stores.

  More routines are using social networks, and taking photos and punching cards is one of them. Guo Maoran once experienced a photo studio, mainly taking id photos. At the time of checkout, the store told me that if you upload the ID photos that have been washed out in the WeChat circle of friends, you can enjoy the discount. Guo Yiran took a photo of his identity card and uploaded it. "Unexpectedly, many people came to ask me where this photo studio is?" Guo Yiran recalled this experience to reporters. "This invisibly brought more customers to this photo studio."

  Nowadays, many online celebrity stores adopt the strategy of encouraging customers to take photos, and increase the exposure of the stores by sharing them with customers themselves. As the saying goes, "three people make a tiger", if people constantly bask in the same store on social networks, it will arouse more people’s curiosity, thus gathering more popularity for online celebrity stores.

  "Under the influence of social networks, in addition to actual consumption, consumers go to online celebrity stores and meet the needs of social sharing, such as punching cards in online celebrity stores and sending friends." Liao Huai said. This shows that the strategy of online celebrity stores spreading through social networks is very effective.

  People who often brush Tik Tok will brush short videos that recommend eating, drinking and having fun, or recommend short videos of some shops from time to time. Seeing the recommended food, I will itch to try it. But this is probably the "routine" of online celebrity store.

  Since the rise of media, especially short videos, online celebrity stores have found new marketing methods. By shooting short videos, food and services can be displayed in all directions, and then some self-media marketing numbers, including Tik Tok, are employed to constantly recommend stores, so as to build the store into a online celebrity store. Or invite some online celebrity to come to the store to experience, and improve the popularity of online celebrity store through the heat of online celebrity.

  Jin Ge, an assistant researcher in Peking University and a doctor of journalism, analyzed the reasons to the reporter: passenger flow is a potential benefit for shops, and the current conventional methods to attract passengers generally cost more. Attracting traffic through the internet and then converting it to offline has become a new channel for obtaining passenger flow. This way of obtaining passenger flow is obviously lower and more efficient than conventional advertising and sales promotion.

  "For shopkeepers in online celebrity, they will do whatever attracts attention on the Internet." Jin Ge said that there is still a problem of marginal cost. The more shops that attract people’s attention, the lower the price of traffic.

  Why is it difficult for online celebrity store to "grow red"?

  If one word is used to describe online celebrity store, ups and downs are the most appropriate. Many online celebrity stores that have been screened are gradually fading out of people’s sight, and even have closed down. It lasts only a few months, and the longer time may only be one year. A netizen concluded: "They are all online celebrity stores living in a circle of friends. When they disappear from your circle of friends, it is not far from the real disappearance. "

  But there are exceptions. Some online celebrity shops have survived, and "Hi Tea" is one of them. In addition, there are those shops that rely on providing high-quality products and services, which have gained higher popularity by building the marketing strategy of online celebrity stores.

  It can be seen that quality is the lifeline of online celebrity store. No matter Xiaoliang, Guo Yuran or Kobayashi, they all said in an interview that if online celebrity stores want to be really popular, they should start with quality and do a good job in quality control so that products can stand in the market.

  Behind the online celebrity store is the realization of traffic, that is, a large amount of traffic obtained on the Internet will be turned into actual passenger flow, which will bring real income. "No matter how well advertising marketing is done, if products and services can’t bring consumers the expected experience, it will be difficult to get repeat customers." Jin Ge said that this would cause online celebrity stores to gain traffic while losing traffic, which is obviously not a wise move.

  "Even online celebrity stores are in the hearts of consumers ‘ Planting grass ’ The process is also a process of constantly improving the expectation of experience, which is also a challenge to the quality of products and services of online celebrity stores. " Jin Ge said.

  Serious homogenization is a common problem in online celebrity stores, and conformity psychology exists not only in consumers, but also in online celebrity stores. When a online celebrity store is on fire, the same type of store will appear immediately, and the same marketing method will be used to build a online celebrity store, even with similar names, which will cause consumers’ aesthetic fatigue.

  Jin Ge said that although the rise of the emerging Internet business model has provided a low-threshold platform for innovation, it is easy to innovate and difficult to attract attention. Therefore, following the trend and hitchhiking have become speculative choices.

  In the marketing of online celebrity store, it may also involve the issue of false propaganda. Under the fame, it is really difficult to be deputy. In the media marketing soft articles or short videos, exaggerated methods are used to amplify the effect of products. "If the actual situation after arriving at the store is inconsistent with the propaganda content of the online celebrity store, its behavior has constituted false propaganda." Liao Huaixue said that Article 4 of the Advertising Law clearly stipulates that advertisements shall not contain false or misleading contents and shall not deceive or mislead consumers. Advertisers should be responsible for the authenticity of advertising content.

  In addition, if the online celebrity store involves false propaganda and infringes consumers’ right to know, according to the relevant provisions of the Consumer Protection Law, the store should bear corresponding legal responsibilities. Consumers should take up legal weapons in time to safeguard their legitimate rights and interests if they encounter some shops that are not worthy of the name and involve deception. This is not only responsible for yourself, but also for society.

  At the same time, public comment, WeChat, Tik Tok and other apps should assume corresponding responsibilities. "From the perspective of platform responsibility, the network platform should take comprehensive prevention and control measures to regulate the online celebrity stores in the platform, protect the legitimate rights and interests of consumers, and earnestly fulfill the platform obligations." Liao Huai said.

Hot search first! Aspartame may cause cancer? Can these drinks be drunk?

On June 29th, "Aspartame causes cancer"

This topic topped the hot search list.

Arouse a heated discussion among netizens.

It is reported that the International Agency for Research on Cancer, a subsidiary of the World Health Organization, held an expert meeting in early June to evaluate whether some products are potentially dangerous based on all published evidence. At the meeting, it was determined that aspartame "may be carcinogenic to human body". At the same time, the Joint FAO/WHO Expert Committee on Food Additives (JECFA) is also reviewing the use of aspartame and will announce the results in July.

WHO responded to the media that it will publish relevant content on this topic on July 14th, but did not disclose the specific content.

According to the Washington Post on the 22nd, aspartame is one of the most common artificial sweeteners in the world. Last year, a study in France showed that eating a large amount of aspartame may increase the risk of cancer in adults, and the United States began to re-examine this sweetener. The American Beverage Association, as the representative of beverage manufacturers, and related industry organizations refute this conclusion. Officials from the American Beverage Association said that aspartame is generally considered safe by the scientific and regulatory circles, which is the conclusion reached by food safety agencies around the world again and again.

Aspartame is the most common synthetic sweetener, such as sugar-free cola and Sprite, which is used to replace sucrose. At present, many foods and beverages labeled as "sugar-free" on the market, such as Coca-Cola diet soda, Mars Extra chewing gum and some Snapple drinks, actually use sweeteners such as aspartame.

Many netizens began to feel nervous:

Reviews from netizens

@Icomtys: Put down my diet coke immediately.

@Hellen wants to teach and educate people: What else can you eat? What to drink?

What’s delicious about coriander? Fortunately, I don’t like sweetness.

@ 京京: I will never eat anything but sugary cola.

@ Tiger Mom Return: My family has diabetes, and there has always been a saying that I should not eat aspartame.

The food and beverage circle began to express its position.

Have a brand emergency response

Aspartame will be listed as a "possible carcinogen". As soon as the news came out, associations and companies in the food and beverage circle stood up and expressed their views.

Kate Loatman, executive director of the International Beverage Association (ICBA), said that IARC’s statement is contrary to a large number of high-quality scientific research conclusions for a long time, or it may mislead consumers to give up safe sugar-free and low-sugar choices and consume more sugar instead. "We still believe in the safety of aspartame because we have conducted safety assessments with food safety authorities from more than 90 countries." Kate Loatman said.

The response of the International Beverage Association also stated that, contrary to the conclusion of IARC, a review report issued by WHO, the parent organization of IARC, in April 2022 showed that there was "no obvious correlation" between high consumption of low-calorie or calorie-free sweeteners and cancer mortality, and it would not cause any form of cancer.

Frances Hunt-Wood, secretary-general of the International Sweetener Association (ISA), accused "IARC is not a food safety agency" and believed that the agency’s evaluation of aspartame "is not comprehensive in science, because it is based on many widely questioned studies and may mislead consumers." Many members of this association include Mars Wrigley and Coca-Cola, both of which have introduced products containing aspartame.

In addition, some China brands immediately distanced themselves from aspartame.

The person in charge of Naixue’s tea said that in November last year, all products had been upgraded with the natural sugar substitute "Luohan"; Siraitia grosvenorii is a medicinal and edible plant, and its extract "Siraitia grosvenorii sugar" is a natural sweet fructose substance.

On the other hand, Yuanqi Forest said that the company’s entire line of products also does not contain aspartame. "Yuanqi Forest ingredients list is cleaner, and Yuanqi Forest Coke has 0 sugar, 0 fat, 0 card and 0 aspartame."

Sugar-free drinks are healthier?

The harm of sweeteners may be underestimated by us.

Aspartame is one of the most commonly used sweeteners. We use aspartame in familiar sugar-free drinks such as "Coke Zero".

Many people know the harm of excessive sugar intake, which will increase the risk of obesity, type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and even cancer. The emergence of artificial sweeteners and sugar substitutes seems to help people avoid the harm caused by excessive sugar intake, and at the same time satisfy the taste. But is this really the case?

In 2021, it was reported by the media that Mr. Kong (pseudonym), 30, likes to drink carbonated drinks, but he is worried that drinking too many sugary drinks will lead to obesity and diabetes. He fills the refrigerator with "sugar-free" or "zero sugar" drinks and drinks at least 4 or 5 bottles every day. Later, Mr. Kong always felt thirsty and his urine output increased, so he went to the hospital. After the doctor knew the course and history of the disease in detail, combined with typical symptoms such as polydipsia and polyuria, and improved the examination in time, Mr. Kong was diagnosed as the first onset-diabetes complicated with ketoacidosis.

Tan Jinmei, a physician of nephrology endocrinology at Wuhan Yangtze River Shipping General Hospital and Wuhan Brain Hospital, explained that sugar-free does not mean that there is no sugar, but it does not contain sucrose, glucose and other sugar-increasing components, and various forms of artificial sweeteners are used instead. Once the sweetener is consumed too much, it will not only stimulate the production of insulin, affect the sensitivity of insulin receptors, but also increase appetite reflexively, leading to excessive calories. Therefore, Mr. Kong’s long-term drinking of sugar-free drinks instead of normal drinking water has accelerated the metabolism of the body out of control and caused diabetes.

Studies have shown that the sweetness of sweeteners can make people feel that they have eaten sugary food, which in turn stimulates the human body to produce insulin, leading to a drop in blood sugar, which makes people feel hungry and increase their appetite. Although the "sweetener" in sugar-free drinks has zero calories, long-term intake of artificial sugar substitutes will lead to insulin endocrine imbalance, which will lead to human metabolism disorder.

On September 7, 2022, researchers from the World Health Organization, the French National Center for Health and Medical Research and the University of Paris published a research paper in the top medical journal BMJ. This study shows that artificial sweeteners are not a healthy and safe substitute for sugar, and higher intake of artificial sweeteners increases the risk of heart disease and stroke.

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Where should children go to read books when they refuse to enter the library?

  At the beginning of July, the library of Shenzhen University Town issued a new regulation: children under 14 are not allowed to enter the library. The reason is that the museum mainly serves teaching and scientific research personnel, and there are no children’s books, and children are running noisily when they enter the museum, and the related complaints have increased sharply.

  This slightly "decisive" rule has attracted a lot of controversy. After one month, the effect is still remarkable.

  A quiet library is always afraid of encountering an uncontrolled "Xiong Haizi", but children in summer vacation can’t escape the call and charm of the public reading environment: the PageOne Bookstore in Qianmen, Beijing, has a bright and elegant space design, firmly "grasping" the children’s heart of swimming; In children’s reading venues of public libraries, the popularity of "parent-child reading" is increasing day by day.

  When the public angrily divided the "isolation zone" for "Xiong Haizi" and stipulated "where children should not go", we should ask more questions — — Where can the child go to study?

  Recently, this newspaper went deep into many children’s summer reading sites and found that children who spend their summer holidays in the city are not satisfied with being comforted only by electronic equipment and high-end travel. On the contrary, they have strong public reading needs. Children’s reading places are by no means a "supporting role" ornament of public facilities, nor an outlet for releasing parents’ educational anxiety. Children and books need to be carefully placed in a sufficiently tolerant and complete public environment.

  Personalized bookstores gain "children’s reading diplomacy", and catering and amusement facilities are more "extra points"

  A chain of private bookstores in Raffles Mall in Dongzhimen, Beijing, has set up "‘ Seventy-two lectures ’ The Children’s Experience Hall has seven reading themes for children aged 0-12, such as "Knowledge Exploration", "Cartoon Animation" and "Art Germination".

  The couch on the left-hand side of the door can accommodate about 7 children at the same time. Parents consciously do not occupy the sofa seat, squatting opposite the children to guide reading. Children without seats are sitting on the wooden floor, but as long as the staff sees the sofa free, they remind other children to sit down quickly.

  Li Yuhong, who brought her 3-and-a-half-year-old granddaughter to read a book, said that her family lives nearby, and she and her daughter-in-law take turns to take her children out to read a book, with an average stay in the bookstore of 1-2 hours each time.

  As a "companion", Li Yuhong used to visit a bookstore regularly, closely focusing on the only reading theme; Daughter-in-law’s way is more "younger". She will take her children to sit in the consumption area, read books while drinking, and occasionally attend a lecture in parenting education.

  "My granddaughter begged me to buy some books every time she left. I said I should buy no more than two books at a time, because I come to the bookstore too often! " Li Yuhong thinks that her granddaughter’s willingness to go to the bookstore is inseparable from the "sense of communication" at the scene. "She chatted with strange children she didn’t know about reading comics, exchanged what she was reading at hand, and made friends by the way."

  Personalized bookstores with meticulous service and beautiful vision are easily welcomed by children’s readers and parents. Li Man, who lives in Shijingshan, Beijing and is engaged in language education, said that her 10-year-old son is obsessed with Sisif Bookstore in his hometown of Xuzhou.

  "In Sisyphus Bookstore, adults and children can read well. Children have a special reading area, many seats, beautiful decoration and great visual experience. Such a bookstore is very atmospheric, the service is humanized, and it can grasp the needs of customers. "

  Li Man thinks that a private bookstore near Beijing’s residence is inferior. The teahouse consumption area is only open to members, and the children’s reading area is very narrow, and it is next to the adult bookshelves, so you don’t choose books carefully.

  A separate children’s reading area and supporting catering and amusement facilities are extra points for parent-child reading in summer. Li Manxiao said that she asked her son what kind of reading place he liked, and his son replied that there was a restaurant next to it. "My son said that if you are hungry in the morning, you can eat. If you are full, you can continue reading in the afternoon!"

  Public libraries are afraid to get close? Children’s reading areas are increasing and services are upgrading.

  Through street interviews, it is found that many parents’ summer parent-child reading intentions have two characteristics: first, they are generally based on the principle of "proximity" and will not "read" remotely; Second, there are different shades of "not feeling close" to the library.

  Zhang Qiang, who is engaged in administrative work in colleges and universities, pulled out a world geography popular science album from the children’s bookshelf in the bookstore to explain to his son what population density is.

  Zhang Qiang said that he often took his son, who was in the third grade of primary school, out to read during the more leisurely winter and summer vacations — — Just go to the bookstore. "I don’t take it to the library because the little boy is at the most noisy age, and he can’t sit still and run around. Going to the library will definitely affect others, and the bookstore is much more comfortable, and I can explain it to my son."

  An "indigenous" resident in Haidian, Beijing, admitted that reading as a teenager always happened in Haidian Book City, not a library just one subway stop away from home. Under the question of "Zhihu" asking how to improve children’s reading interest, some netizens mentioned that there are many "adult examination parties" in the city library. If there are no good children’s books, the atmosphere will be serious enough to "choke" children.

  Article 34 of the People’s Republic of China (PRC) Public Libraries Law, which came into effect on January 1st this year, stipulates that public libraries established by the government should set up reading areas for children, be equipped with corresponding professionals according to the characteristics of children, carry out reading guidance and social education activities for children, and provide support for schools to carry out relevant extracurricular activities. Conditional areas can set up a separate children’s library.

  In fact, many libraries have put it into action in the children’s reading section. For example, the Children’s Library of the National Library, which has been open for 8 years, consists of a parent-child reading area on the first floor and a young people’s reading area on the second floor, with an area of about 1,200 square meters, more than 200 fixed seats and about 300 non-fixed seats, providing more than 80,000 books for reading.

  Li Man and his son, whose home is far from the national map, are "die-hard" fans of Shijingshan Children’s Library. "The scale is not particularly large, but there should be everything, and children can quietly read."

  The progress of details and the whole is happening quietly. Li Man remembers taking his son to get a library card a few years ago, and he still needs to take photos to handle it. Borrowing books is purely manual. Now, the children’s library can apply for a certificate directly by swiping the ID card, and borrowing and returning books can be done by machines; A significant increase in the number of children’s seats and amusement facilities has brought a good experience to children.

  In Li Man’s view, whether a library is suitable for children’s reading is based on comfort, quietness and scale. "In fact, I personally feel that the reading space is not too big for children. What is important is the experience, which is the service consciousness to help children screen books."

  Experts suggest that reading places should enhance the "children’s view" and add interactivity to the space.

  Whether it is a public library, a private bookstore or a new "children’s library", the form will continue to be upgraded, but some core service concepts are consistent.

  Lin Dan, the founder of Youbei Parent-child Library, has been engaged in pioneering work in the field of reading for young children since 2009. She saw that the development track of the parent-child reading industry in the past 10 years was clearly visible.

  When Lin Dan visited the local library when he traveled abroad, he found that the hardware facilities of public reading places in China have not lost abroad, but the "software" needs to be strengthened.

  Lin Dan saw that from the national library to the rural library in France, the services provided for young children are very popular, and the subtle thoughts are extremely moving. For example, the design of children’s bookshelves is "within reach", and children can easily "carry" books up; The library provides carpets and lazy sofas for children.

  "I am very concerned about children’s reading places ‘ Software ’ At present, the possible problems in domestic libraries and bookstores are that there are few books for young children and there is a lack of ‘ Activity section ’ And specially equipped staff. "

  Xue Tao, a children’s literature writer who has been studying children’s reading education for a long time, thinks that domestic children’s reading places should gain greater social tolerance.

  "The library should not be ‘ One size fits all ’ . When they say ‘ Xiong Haizi ’ When it is uncontrollable, it means that the management ability is insufficient. Public facilities should not close the door to exclude children, not to mention the most effective group of reading is children. "

  Xue Tao pointed out that the ideal children’s reading place should create an independent reading environment on the one hand, and create an interactive area on the other hand, and invite writers to meet and have a dialogue with children’s readers.

  "Children’s reading places should carry out more promotion activities to make books ‘ Speak ’ , let the environment ‘ Hello ’ To attract children to study. " In addition, Xue Tao believes that children’s reading places should avoid blindly "narrowing", "specialization" and "childishness", "be generous, don’t deliberately divide them, and insist that this is yours and that is mine. This is a shared space and shared books".

  "Many people think that it is enough to send their children to libraries and bookstores once a week, which is not normal reading." Lin Dan thinks that by creating an environment of "choosing the right books" and "using the right books", children should fall in love with reading, learn good rules and read correctly when they get home.

  The establishment of reading environment is inseparable from the improvement of public cultural system and the participation of non-governmental forces. Whether builders and families "accompany readers", adults should uphold and strengthen the "children’s view", "read together" with children in a parallel line of sight and respect children.

  China Youth Daily Zhongqing Online Trainee Reporter Shen Jiequn

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Football synthesis: the top 16 men’s soccer teams are released

Xinhua News Agency, Hangzhou, September 25th (Reporter Wei Yijun) On the 25th, there were seven football matches in the Hangzhou Asian Games. The men’s soccer team finished the last round of group matches, and all the top 16 were produced. The women’s football team played five games, and Vietnam, South Korea, Uzbekistan and Japan all beat their opponents by a big margin.

In the final round of the men’s soccer group match of the Asian Games, China lost to Uzbekistan 1-2 in Group C, and Japanese team beat Palestinian team 1-0 in Group D..

The score result of football match on 25th.

According to the rules, the top two of the six groups and the third place of the four best teams advanced to the top 16. The top two teams from China and India in Group A, Iran and Saudi Arabia in Group B, Uzbekistan and Hongkong, China in Group C, Japan and Palestine in Group D, South Korea and Bahrain in Group E, North Korea and Kyrgyzstan in Group F, and the four best teams, the third Myanmar, Qatar, Thailand and Indonesia, advanced.

According to the schedule, the China Men’s Football Asian Games team will play Qatar in the quarter-finals on the 27th.

The women’s football team played five games on the same day, and there were big scores in four games. In Group A, Uzbekistan beat Mongolia 6-0, ranking second in the group after China. In Group D, Vietnam beat Bangladesh 6-1, while Japan beat Nepal 8-0. In Group E, China lost to Myanmar 0-1, while South Korea beat the Philippines 5-1.

Domestic C919 and ARJ21 aircraft will visit Hong Kong for the first time.

  Xinhua News Agency, Hong Kong, December 5 (Reporter Meng Jia) According to the Civil Aviation Department of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region Government, the C919 and ARJ21 aircraft independently developed by the state will visit Hong Kong for the first time on the 12th and stay there until the 17th. This will be the first time that a C919 plane has visited a city outside the mainland.

  ARJ21 is the first turbofan regional aircraft designed and manufactured independently by China. It was put into commercial operation in 2016 and officially delivered to overseas customers in 2022, and entered the international market. C919 is a large passenger plane designed, manufactured and certified for airworthiness in strict accordance with internationally accepted airworthiness standards. The first commercial C919 was delivered to airlines in December 2022 and put into service in 2023. The successful development of these two passenger airliners is an important milestone in the national aviation manufacturing industry.

  The event was jointly organized by the Civil Aviation Department of the Hong Kong SAR Government and the Hong Kong Airport Authority. Commercial Aircraft Corporation of China was invited to send C919 and ARJ21 aircraft to visit Hong Kong.

  Li Jiachao, Chief Executive of the Hong Kong Special Administrative Region, welcomed the first visit of C919 and ARJ21 aircraft to Hong Kong. He said that this fully reflects the country’s emphasis on the development of Hong Kong’s aviation industry and Hong Kong’s role as an international aviation hub. The 14th Five-Year Plan and the Outline of Guangdong-Hong Kong-Macao Greater Bay Area Development Plan clearly support the consolidation of Hong Kong’s position as an international aviation hub.

  One of these two types of aircraft will arrive at the Hong Kong International Airport on the 12th, and will be statically displayed in a fixed area of the Hong Kong International Airport, and representatives of the aviation industry, youth groups and regional organizations will be arranged to board the plane for a visit.

  Another highlight of this activity is the flight demonstration on the 16th. If weather conditions permit, the C919 will take off from Hong Kong International Airport, fly over Victoria Harbour and fly around Hong Kong Island twice. At that time, the public can have a glimpse of the domestic large aircraft.

  On the afternoon of 16th, representatives of Comac China will be invited to meet with teenagers at the headquarters of the Civil Aviation Department to share their knowledge about the two aircraft. Two planes will leave Hong Kong and return to Shanghai on the afternoon of 17th.

  Liao Zhiyong, Director of the Civil Aviation Department of the Hong Kong SAR Government, said that since 2012, the National Civil Aviation Administration has invited the Civil Aviation Department to participate in the preliminary work of the research and development of the C919 aircraft, and the Civil Aviation Department has been actively participating. Liao Zhiyong was very excited and looking forward to the opportunity to witness the flight of C919 over Hong Kong, and thanked the Civil Aviation Administration of China and Comac China for their full support and cooperation.

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Happy e-home classroom | What should children do if they talk back and lose their temper?

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What if the child talks back and loses his temper?

Listen to He Laoshi!

Children’s behavior problems may not be serious, but if they are not handled properly, they will have a great impact on children’s physical and mental health and learning and growth.

Children always talk back and lose their temper easily. What should parents do?

In fact, when children talk back, most of them have emotions in their hearts, and even many emotions are intertwined, such as dissatisfaction, anger, injustice, irritability and so on. When talking back can’t solve the problem, or lead to greater pressure and blow, losing your temper is a manifestation of your child’s helplessness and inability to cope. Why do children have such emotions? In fact, nine times out of ten, parents provoked it.

Parents are mostly unconscious.

I didn’t realize it myself

Let’s look in the mirror first.

The first mirror: no letter mirror

Many children will vomit: "I promised to accompany me, but I always left me alone because of this and that." "I clearly agreed to let me go out to play, and I changed my mind just because I was not obedient and made him unhappy." "I originally agreed to buy me a gift, because I didn’t do well in the exam, it was ruined."

Mom and dad will also be very wronged: "We are not all for your own good, but also have to work and take care of the family. No matter how busy we are, we all want to squeeze some time for you. I really can’t help it."

"I promised you to go out to play and buy gifts not only to make you happy, but also to encourage you to work hard and make progress. I hope you can become a talent. You can’t do it. I can only warn you by not letting you go out to play and not buying gifts. I hope you can take a warning and encourage you to do better next time."

In fact, for children, what can motivate them to work hard is not gifts or play, but how important he is in your heart. What matters is your work friend, whether he listens or not, his grades or him. These are all things. We ignore people’s feelings for things. Children feel bad, and they can’t do things well.

What children need is the feeling of being valued. If they promise not to do so, they will arouse their emotions.

The second mirror: double standard mirror

Parents’ two sets of standards are spit out by children:

1. Parents watch mobile phones for work or relaxation, while children watch mobile phones for fun;

2. It is hard for parents to sleep at 12 o’clock, and children will not arrange time to sleep at 12 o’clock;

3. Parents are good for their children when they lose their temper, and children are not sensible when they lose their temper;

4. Take the advantages of other people’s children to benchmark the shortcomings of their own children;

5. When my brother loses his temper, my mother will coax him, and when I lose my temper, my mother will get angry.

The third mirror: haha mirror

Unrealistic expressions, such as: parents don’t understand the situation and children are misunderstood; Parents will criticize in a general and generalized way. If they are late twice, they will say: You are always late and don’t care about your study at all; Parents like to turn over old scores. What happened a few years ago has long been changed, and it will be brought out to talk about things.

The fourth mirror: the authoritative mirror

Parents are used to nagging, reasoning, and using authoritative methods. They don’t convince their children, or they don’t understand the reasons why their children don’t do or can’t do it. They just ask their children to obey blindly. If they are not convinced, they will want to express their ideas and talk back with emotion.

There are two extremes in blindly forcing children to change. One extreme is that there is a child in your family who is stubborn and doesn’t bow his head easily. A strong approach will arouse his greater emotions to confront you, and will also inspire his fighting spirit to think of more ways to fight with you. In the end, your attention is focused on defeating each other, ignoring the really important learning and growth. At the other extreme, parents have successfully suppressed their children, and your children have gradually become good children who dare not express, dare not say no, and have no ideas of their own, or have formed a mode of suppressing emotions and forbearing to please.

In either case, the problems may be magnified or even erupted when you are in adolescence or when you are faced with the high pressure of the college entrance examination. If you solve them at that time, the price you have to pay will be great, and even some effects will be irreversible.

Therefore, to solve the problem of children talking back and losing their temper from the root, both parents and children need to work together and change at the same time.

So how to change it?

Two magic weapons for you

Magic Weapon 1: Harmonious Trilogy (Parents)

Step 1: When the child talks back and loses his temper, mom and dad should keep calm.

If you can’t, you can meditate in your mind:

When a child loses his temper, he is actually only three years old. I am * * * years old. I am not as knowledgeable as a three-year-old child, and I don’t want to be three years old. I’ll talk to him when he calms down.

Step 2: Look at yourself with four mirrors. What provoked the child just now?

If we find ourselves falling into the situation of the first three mirrors, and our children are wronged, we need to sincerely apologize. If it’s the situation reflected in the fourth mirror [authoritative mirror], it’s obvious that the way of authoritative coercion doesn’t work for your child. We need to change the way and can’t confront the child head-on.

Step 3: Listen carefully to your child’s thoughts, express your expectations, find what you want together, and discuss with your child how to reach an agreement.

When the child is calm after the problem is solved. We need to have an after-the-fact talk with our children and express how you hope that in the future, when children are emotional and dissatisfied with you, they can talk in addition to talking back and losing their temper. If you do something inappropriate, ask your child to look in the mirror and express his thoughts and feelings directly, instead of talking back.

Magic weapon 2: can use four-step expression (children)

1. You just said …;

2. I feel very … (emotional);

3. Because … (Tell the truth reflected by the faithless mirror, the double-standard mirror, the haha mirror and the authoritative mirror);

I want to … (say what I think).

Of course, the next time a child uses the four-step expression, parents should not become angry from embarrassment. They need to take the initiative to enter the Harmony Trilogy, adjust their state, look at themselves in the mirror, and discuss with their children how to solve the current problems. Don’t forget to praise the children in this process! Because of his active expression, you can avoid misunderstanding and quarrel, and help you grow up by reminding you.

Mom and dad,

When children talk back,

Let’s not lose our temper,

Try to look in the four mirrors and find the problem.

Guide children to use four-step expressions.

When you find a problem, you have a chance to solve it.

Change takes time to accumulate,

Let’s take our time together.

He yanhong

Yiwu maisuihua family education guidance center tutor

Jane, quick and happy relationship tutor

National registered second-level psychological counselor

Adolescent mental growth tutor

Source | Yiwu Women

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On the ninth day of the first month, Huangguadao, Daitou Town, Putian, shakes and paddles wine to have a Lantern Festival.

the beginning of september
Huangguadao, Daitou Town, Xiuyu District
Shake the oars and make the Lantern Festival.
9:30-11:30
In Tadashi Zhongyang Mansion
Hold a cultural activity of "Riverside Rowing"
Congratulations to the bride and groom.
Have a baby early, grow old together, and care for each other
14:00-15:30
In Tadashi Zhongyang Mansion
Hold a folk activity of "street wine"
"Line" means that the ship sails smoothly at sea.
"Tao" means safe entry and exit on the landing road.
Young men and women compete for "wine"
Looking forward to a "safe and smooth" new year.
six o’clock pm
Hold a "seeing the bride" to welcome the new year.
Just married in the past year
"seeing the bride" at the groom’s home
The bride and groom stood in the hall dressed up to receive guests.
Accept the greetings and blessings from the guests who came.
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▲ Photography/Hui Bing Wu
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The 6th CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship was grandly opened, and all kinds of talents at home and abroad gathered in Yushan to compete for the highest honor.

China Economic Weekly-Economic News On December 8, the opening ceremony of the 6th CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship in China Jiangxi Shangrao Yushan was staged in Yushan Sports Center Square.

Present at the opening ceremony were Jia Zhisheng, deputy director of the Mass Sports Department of the State Sports General Administration, Zhao Liping, vice chairman of China Billiards Association, Gan Liantong, vice chairman of China Billiards Association and Beijing Star Group, Yang Musheng, deputy director of Jiangxi Provincial Political Consultative Conference, Xiao Liqing, deputy secretary-general of Jiangxi Provincial Political Consultative Conference and full-time vice chairman of the Provincial Committee of Jiu San Society, Jin Ziwei, member and deputy director of Jiangxi Provincial Sports Bureau, Qiu Xiangjun, deputy secretary of CPC Shangrao Municipal Committee and mayor. Zhu Meiqing, Vice Mayor of Shangrao Municipal Government; Mao Zubin, Secretary General of Shangrao Municipal Government; Luo Laishui, Party Secretary and Director of Shangrao Sports Bureau; Zheng Guoliang, Secretary of Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China; Yu Honglei, Deputy Secretary of Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China; Gan Jialing, General Manager of Beijing Xingwei Sporting Goods Co., Ltd.; Batuga Osol, Minister of Sports and Culture of Mongolia; Narambata Joygawa, First Deputy Minister of Mongolia International Olympic Committee; Likit Intabang, Secretary General of Laos International Olympic Committee; and Kaihua and Jiangshan, Zhejiang Players from 41 countries and regions around the world, domestic first-line referees, nearly 100 mainstream media representatives and anchors also attended the opening ceremony.

As a billiards project with independent intellectual property rights in China, Chinese billiards became popular in China as soon as it came out in 1980s. In 2012, the Small Ball Sports Management Center of the State Sports General Administration and Star Brand jointly announced the name "Chinese billiards", and Chinese billiards was also recognized as a formal sport by the State Sports General Administration, and the sport began to get on the right track.

In 2015, the China Billiards Association initiated the CBSA Chinese Billiards World Championship, which accelerated the internationalization of Chinese billiards, made Chinese billiards gradually accepted by billiards players and fans all over the world, and spread the rules and skills of Chinese billiards around the world. Now, more and more countries and regions have begun to incorporate it into their own billiards system, and Chinese billiards has become an important part of the world billiards.

A total of 496 players from 41 countries and regions participated in this Chinese billiards World Championships, and the number of participating countries and participants reached a new high, making it the largest Chinese billiards competition in the world. The total prize money of the tournament is 10.43 million RMB, which is the highest in the world, including 3 million for the men’s team and 1 million for the women’s team. In the next eight days, billiards groups from all over the world will stage the battle of the peak of Chinese billiards and compete for the honor of world champion.

At the opening ceremony, Jia Zhisheng, deputy director of the Mass Sports Department of the State Sports General Administration, delivered a wonderful speech: "The Chinese Billiards World Championship is a benchmark and model for the development of high-quality events in Jiangxi Province, which will further promote the promotion of Chinese billiards in the world, further increase the positive impact on the economic and social development of Yushan and even Jiangxi, and make contributions to promoting friendly exchanges and exchanges between China and other countries in the world."

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Zhao Liping, vice chairman of China Billiards Association, fully affirmed the significance of the Chinese Billiards World Championships: "The number of participating countries and the number of participants in the Chinese Billiards World Championships have reached a new high, which not only shows that more and more countries and regions like and participate in Chinese billiards, but more importantly, more and more countries and regions have recognized the regularity, professionalism and authority of the Chinese Billiards World Championships."

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Gan Liantong, vice chairman of China Billiards Association and Beijing Xingpai Group, said: "The Chinese Billiards World Championships is not only a simple sports event, but also the achievements and honors of all athletes. It is a platform for billiards people all over the world to communicate and enhance their friendship, and it is also a platform to show the charm of Chinese billiards and Yushan."

Chinese billiards world championships have grown from scratch, and the governments of Jiangxi Province, Shangrao City and Yushan County have made great contributions. Zhu Meiqing, deputy mayor of Shangrao Municipal Government, said: "We will adhere to the concept of" running a good game and invigorating a city ",make full efforts to promote the deep integration of" sports+culture+tourism "with the help of competitions and the media, accelerate the building of Yushan into a world-class venue for billiards competitions, and let more billiards lovers enter Shangrao, enjoy life and experience happiness."

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In recent years, Yushan has made every effort to build a county-level sports brand featuring billiards, successfully held five Chinese billiards world championships, four Chinese snooker world open tournaments and Chinese billiards international professional leagues, and implemented three major industrial projects, namely, "International Billiards Culture City, Star Billiards Industrial Park and Top Billiards Tournament", gradually stepping out of the characteristic road of high-quality development of county-level sports from resources to products, from products to events, from events to cultures, and from cultures to brands. Zheng Guoliang, secretary of the Yushan County Committee of the Communist Party of China, said: "We will adhere to the new development concept of openness and sharing, adhere to integrity and innovation, and strive to create a’ safe, comfortable and beautiful’ competition and living environment for each contestant, and strive to make this competition a passionate stage, enhance friendship and promote development, and make every effort to create China style, Jiangxi characteristics, Shangrao style and Yushan charm."

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Chinese billiards world championships have been held for many years and have been supported by many international billiards organizations and national billiards associations. The vigorous development of Chinese billiards has become a powerful link between China and the world. Batuga Osol, Minister of Sports and Culture of Mongolia, said: "The Chinese Billiards World Championships is the highest level Chinese billiards competition in the world, and it will surely be a fierce and wonderful competitive feast. I am also looking forward to seeing the friendship and team spirit among the players and creating unforgettable moments on this stage. "

At the opening ceremony, there were also wonderful cultural performances, and the creative programs which blended Chinese and Western cultures reflected the internationalization of Chinese billiards and the unique charm of Yushan, a world famous billiards city.

Finally, the leaders jointly kicked off, and Qiu Xiangjun, deputy secretary of Shangrao Municipal Committee of the Communist Party of China and mayor, announced the official opening of the 6th Chinese Billiards World Championship.

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(Vingo)