Philosophy ｜ The five greatest abilities of adults

Wake yourself up and forget the past.

Everyone’s life, there are many unsatisfactory things. Too big to find a suitable job, buy a suitable house, and talk about a suitable object; Too small to be criticized by the leader because of a mistake, and I will be late soon but I can’t get on the subway.　

What makes people tired is not the distant mountains, but a grain of sand in their shoes. What limits one’s progress is often the feelings of falling in and the people and things that can’t be let go.

Wake yourself up, not thinking about the past, but also fearing the future; Is to forgive others, but also to reconcile with yourself; It is commitment and acceptance, and it is also a fresh start.　

The more people who know how to let go, the happier they will be.

02 restrain yourself and be steady and far-reaching.

Young and frivolous, anyone who doesn’t have a little achievement will show his face and show his sharpness.

We always think that only by showing others where we have been, what books we have read and what achievements we have made can we prove our knowledge and value. It was only after seeing the wind and rain that I found out: modest gentleman, humble self-grazing.

Make public will only waste time, and the collection can grow steadily. A person who has really seen the world is generally peaceful.

The most taboo thing about being a man is that the wood is beautiful in the forest and people are floating in the public; The most taboo thing in life is to indulge in fantasy and aim at empty voices. Such people will suffer a lot from life.

When you are proud, you should restrain yourself, know how to hide the front and guard against stupidity, keep a low profile and be simple, so that you can have a stable and far-reaching life.

Steady yourself and turn over against the wind.

People in this life, such as sailing on the sea, or smooth sailing, or difficult sailing against the wind. If you are in trouble, you will only lose your way and lose the game; Calm and calm, everything is calm, in order to follow the waves and stand upright.

In the face of uncontrollable life, no amount of money and house can compare with a stable and powerful heart.

● Don’t worry

Zeng Guofan said: "Everything must be handled calmly and gently. If you are in a hurry, you may be wrong." Only by keeping a steady mind, working hard in secret, and not worrying and fearing too much, can we turn the tables against the wind when the opportunity comes.

● Not impulsive

The sense of security brought by reason and calmness is far greater than recklessness and competition. Who can stay calm in consternation, remain stable in anger and stay awake in anger, who is the real hero.

● Don’t give up.

How many grievances can you swallow before you can achieve many great things. In the days of waiting, keep your mind steady and take root, so that you can flourish in the future.

Straighten yourself and see the value.

After half a lifetime, we will always find that some people have worked hard all their lives and still achieved nothing. It’s not that they don’t work hard and struggle, but that they don’t find their own position.

It is a state not to overestimate yourself. If you take yourself too seriously, you will only hurt the most; Hold yourself too high, and the worse you fall.

It is calm not to underestimate yourself. In this world, everyone is unique, so you don’t have to belittle your existence because of other people’s opinions.

The best state of life is to straighten your heart, recognize your position and see your own value.

There are three stages in life: seeing the world, seeing all beings and seeing yourself. People who truly understand, never cater to all kinds of voices, but can look straight at themselves and find the path that suits them best after trying again and again, so that they can grow up quickly.

Update yourself and enrich your life.

Invariably, you will only be trapped in the same place; Know how to renew yourself, and life will be rich and splendid.

Renew your thinking. We can’t judge the present by the past experience. The correct way is to take contingency measures at the right time. To be a creative and open-minded person, no matter how complicated the world is, you are vast and flowing.

Renew ideas. Times are changing all the time. If you don’t know how to adjust your direction with the times, people will easily fall into some kind of obsession and go to the dark. Learn to update ideas and embrace change with a positive attitude, so as to learn from others and accept all kinds of life.

Update one’s knowledge When you always keep your curiosity and curiosity and improve yourself through learning, you can truly have the ability and strength to change reality. Life is the best textbook, and the truth of life is hidden in every corner of it. All the books you have read and the world you have seen will constantly update the thickness and breadth of your life.　　

Source | People’s Forum Network, Philosophical Life Network, Missing Your Heart, Having Books; The picture comes from the Internet.